Catching a Cheater
Do you think your partner is cheating on you? Cheaters always leave signs. Below is some information that can help you crack what to look for if you think your partner is having an affair. This article is written for both men and women and we only provided the top ten signs of cheating though the list is endless. Hence most of the clues can help you to see what is going on and to know where you stand with your partner.
Top Ten Tips
- Friends or colleagues start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible partner you are.)
- He/she becomes "accusatory," asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.
- Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house. They know that they are breaking the rules of your relationship and so they justify cheating to themselves by finding fault with you.
- Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.
- You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
- Improvements in wardrobe or personal appearance.
- He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.
- Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously
- An unexplained indifference or aloofness in the relationship and your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
- Leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone and hangs up suddenly when you walk in the room
There is no order to these signs of cheating partner; but if you are seeing any of them, you should monitor your relationship closely. If your partner is really cheating, there is also no formula for stopping cheating partner. What works for other couples might not work for you. The best thing you can do is to remain calm and communicate with your partner in a polite manner, though you might be provoked but acting on impulse might make things worse.
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Updated: 01 March 2011
by Zanele Matshotyana
